This page is dedicated to some special people who have helped Scott and myself through this difficult time of our lives. Losing Hayes had changed our lives dramatically. We never in a million years ever thought we’d experience the death of a child and I pray that no one else ever has to. I’ve met some amazing people over the last year and half that helped me tremendously. Without the support of other parents and grandparents I don’t know how I could’ve made it this far. Most people who haven’t walked these shoes believe that we should “BE OVER IT”. How do you get over it? You DON’T! You must live with it and take it day by day and do whatever it takes to get you through the day. For me, it’s been mostly the online support that I’ve had. As most women know, our spouses don’t like the online time we spend, but Scott is thankful that I have you all and if that’s what gets me through the day, he’s happy you’re there. There’s no waythat I can express how much "ALL" of you mean to me and how each of you get me through my difficult times. I want to thank everyone who has added a candle, page, graphic, sent an email of condolences, and etc.. in memory of Hayes. There’s so many that have touched my life that I could never personally thank you all. Please know that we appreciate everything from the bottom of our hearts. Joyce Allman I can't even remember who sent me to you, but I'm so thankful they I did. I know I done a search on children's memorials and I tried creating one for Hayes after seeing other memorials but I didn't have a clue on how to create one. I learned enough to put pictures up on a page and that was it. I believe someone sent me an email and gave me your name and email address. All it took was one email and you jumped right in and created a beautiful tribute to my only son. You spent countless hours on creating a perfect tribute to Hayes and it all came from within your kind heart. I remember you telling me that you'd be honored to create a site for Hayes, but you just don't know what an "honor" you've done for me and my family. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for "ALL" that you've done and contiue to do for us. Hayes' knew you'd do a beautiful job on creating his site in order for me to keep his memory alive and to occupy me until we're reunited again. Thank you for the support you given me and for always being there to listen to me. Saralyn Smith Where do I even start? You've been my "ROCK"! I don't know how I could've made it this far without you. When I feel as if I'm at the end of my rope, you always have the wordsof encouragement and faith to make me feel better. Even through your own pain, you're still there for me. I truly feel in my heart that our sons led us to one another and they are best friends in heaven. Hayes knew I needed someone to talk to that knows the pain and grief I live in each day, so he sent or all the graphics you've done for me. Diane Kayser Like Saralyn, you've been a rock for me during some hard times, even though you're own pain. Hayes is keeping an eye on me by sending you to me. He knew that I need strength and friendship through these hard times. Thank you for always being there. Susan Woolford I'm so thankful that I've had the pleasure of meeting you in person. You've made alot of websetsand graphics for Hayes and I appreciate it so much, but more than that is the friendship I nowhave with you. You're such an outgoing person and you've brought laughter into by life that I thought I'd never have again. I know that no matter what time of night or morning I need you,you're always there. When I have trouble sleeping at nights, you're there to talk to me until I can't hold my eyes open any longer. Thank you for everything! You are listening to "Bridge Over Troubled Water", by Clay Aiken